Chaos theory & relationships

Chaos theory can be summed up in 2 words "random predictability". Relationships are pretty much like that. Time and again we hear about how unpredictable relationships are and how hard it is to understand but if we think about it then its not that hard at all. Lets say your relationship is a journey from point A to B where A is good and B is better. Well if someone says I am already in a good relationship and don't need to go anywhere then remember there always a gravitation pull and you will spiral in and crash. So back to travel from A to B, now if you want to reach B but you are
doing everything to reach Z then there is no way you will reach B. No point in blaming randomness for the failure. Rules play an important role in this theory and every time u bend/break a rule, u are taking u r self further from your destination. I am not saying we should always follow the rules and stick to path but we should realize that relationships are predictable if you stop and think what you are doing. Oh well, chaos is lot more fun, who wants predictability in life anyways...